FIRST PERSON | How I navigated losing my voice as a trans opera singer | CBC News

I was told to expect body hair, sweatiness, acne, breaking voice — all the hallmarks of traditional male puberty, only I’d be experiencing it at the ripe old age of 28. But that didn’t matter because my chemical transition from female to male was finally beginning! 

I was excited for it, especially to hear my voice — which I could only describe as that of a particularly saccharine Disney princess — drop into the male register.

Listen | Asher Maclaren sings a Disney princess song before his transition:

This excitement was tempered with fear though. My voice breaking and lowering would alter my ability to sing, and could permanently reduce my vocal range.

You see, I am a classically trained coloratura soprano — which meant I could hit some of the highest musical notes with accuracy and precision. I was essentially risking my passion for my identity. 

Prior to my current career in tech, I had studied at the Vancouver Academy of Music, training as an opera singer. I had improved and shaped my voice there, eventually singing the lead role in their spring opera (a feminine, shrill woman pretending to be a cat magically transformed into a human — drawing some strange parallels given my trans identity) before an injury forced me to drop out.

Listen | Asher Maclaren performs in an opera as a coloratura soprano before his transition:

While my high voice was a poor match for my identity, I was proud of it and took every opportunity to sing. Before COVID hit, that meant hitting up karaoke nights all over the city, delivering a smashing version of the Beatles’ Oh! Darling and soaking up the admiration with a confident vanity that any cat would be proud of. 

So it was with a growing undercurrent of worry that I observed my voice as it changed. By June 2020, I had been on testosterone for nine months. I was fascinated by the changes I was seeing in my body, and most strangers now assumed I was male. The first time an Uber driver called me “sir,” I was so jazzed that I went and bought a bottle of celebratory prosecco.

Second puberty hit me at full force: I was hungry; I was too hot; my boyfriend lovingly called  my increasingly hairy lower legs “woolen socks.” Despite the sweat and acne, my confidence was at an all-time high.

Most notably, my voice had dropped by almost an octave. This change, as I’d feared, was a double-edged sword. While my lower voice reinforced my male identity, I could barely sing. I was in a painful musical limbo, with a tiny range that cracked into embarrassing pubescent squawks on any high note.

Watch | Asher Maclaren sings Der Leiermann while he was transitioning:

Pre-testosterone, I had made jokes to my friends about how someone as vain as myself would struggle to accept no longer being “talented.” As the reality of it sunk in, I found myself mourning the clear tones and soaring high notes I could belt out. My new voice certainly wouldn’t be garnering any praise from drunk strangers at the karaoke bar.

But puberty doesn’t last forever, and that was the same with my second puberty. By early 2021, I started to regain some range and I began working with a vocal coach again. It was difficult and often unrewarding — an octave down, my voice required a brand new training regime and I tired easily. 

But slowly I began to see the progress. With practice and time, I was able to produce those same satisfying clear tones though this time as a tenor. The relief and happiness I felt as I grew back into my voice was overwhelming.

Listen | Asher Maclaren sings with his new tenor voice post-transition 

I’m not back to my opera-lead strength yet. Life and the pandemic has gotten in the way of my training and I’ve done a lot more singing along to Spotify playlists than I’ve spent practising vocal rudiments. So far, I’ve performed at an international masterclass for trans singers, released a Christmas album and plan to bombard choirs around the city with my resume before too long.

I used to look at my voice as a prize to be shown off for accolades before it was placed back in its case for safekeeping. Now, I see it as a tool, to be honed and experimented with and I can’t wait to see what else I can do with it.

Asher Maclaren’s transition is the subject of a CBC Radio documentary, Passaggio. 

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