Welcome to How I Do It, the series in which we give you a seven-day sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger.
This week, we hear from 58-year-old Olaf*, a man who has extramarital affairs with escorts behind the back of his chronically ill wife.
‘I am someone with a big sexual appetite,’ he tells Metro.co.uk. ‘However, my wife suffers from endometriosis which causes her immense pain, so I turn to escorts instead, and have done for years.
‘My wife doesn’t know about this – I know she wouldn’t approve.’
Olaf has also had emotional affairs with a number of the women he’s been seeing.
‘She doesn’t know that I’ve previously fallen in love with an escort,’ he adds.
‘Unfortunately, she didn’t want to commit so nothing came of this romance, but I have certainly formed emotional connections with some of the women I’ve met.’
Without any further ado, here’s how he got on this week…
Monday
Today I woke up really early – it was still dark outside. I felt warm under my covers, so I started to masturbate until I sank into an orgasm.
My wonderful wife was still asleep next to me, but she never minds me pleasuring myself.
Tuesday
When I woke up today, I began searching online for an escort. I found one who caught my eye – her name was Alexa.
Her profile appealed to me immediately because she sounded interesting and looked beautiful in her photos. So I wrote to her, and we arranged an appointment.
When I arrived at her flat, we had a little drink, chatted, and then had sex. I spoiled her orally and gave her a yoni massage, a sexual tantric massage on the vagina.
One of my favourite things to do is give yoni massages in 40 degree heat. If done right, this can take up to two hours, and I’m told it ignites firework like orgasms. I love making the women I meet climax, it’s what brings me complete satisfaction.
We continued to have sex in various positions, and I climaxed. An amazing afternoon.
Then, I went home and cooked dinner for my wife. We watched TV together in the evening, discussed work, and treated ourselves to some wine.
We don’t have any children, so our lives are wonderfully relaxed in many ways.
Wednesday
I met with another escort, Steffi, today, who I found on the Kaufmich website. We arranged everything in advance, including outfit preferences. In the afternoon we met at a hotel where I had prepared the room with rose petals and a freshly drawn bath.
When Steffi arrived with a welcoming smile, I felt completely at ease. She sat down next to me on the bed and stroked my arm. We kissed deeply, and I went down on her.
She then grabbed some warm oil and started massaging my penis; it wasn’t long before I finished on her face – something she had agreed to beforehand.
After we said goodbye, I went home to crack on with work before getting an early night. This week has been busy so far (in the best possible way) so I needed some rest.
Thursday
As I had already enjoyed lots of great sex this week, today I focused on work, myself, and my wife.
I checked off lots of important responsibilities from my weekly to-do list, bought my wife a bunch of flowers, and we ordered a takeaway for dinner.
Friday
Today I enjoyed a pre-arranged overnight stay with an escort named Mila – I’ve been hornier than usual this week.
We met in a hotel, and we first went to the sauna before enjoying a swim. Finally, we went back to our room where we had sex for the first time.
After getting to know each other a little more, we began to explore bondage. I tied Mila up in positions using rope, and we continued to have more incredible sex. It’s no wonder I fell asleep straight away afterwards.
Saturday
Today I messaged an escort I have a long-term relationship with; Sophia. I picked her up at 1pm, and we went to the zoo. We couldn’t keep our hands off of each other.
Then, I blindfolded her and drove her to an old, derelict mansion. We went inside, started kissing before going down on each other, and both came several times.
Afterwards, I drove her home and we said our goodbyes. I then headed home as my wife and I had plans to go out for dinner and drinks with some friends. It was great to catch up and see my wife having some fun.
Sunday
I woke up today to a typical Sunday. I popped online and saw an escort who looked great. We met at a hotel room where I had again covered the bed with petals and even a handwritten card.
We undressed each other and enjoyed sex in yoga positions whilst blindfolded.
Yoga positions are great during sex; you can achieve a much deeper and more intense orgasm.
I then went home and cooked a lovely meal to end a great week.
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